Thursday, February 25, 2010

Chase turns 13----What?

It's official, Chase is a teenager. Am I old enough to have a teenager? I guess it's a little late to be asking that question now. Spend a few days with Chase and you will see for yourself that he is a teenager. I found this quote in the "Stregthen the Family Book" under the Seeking Independence and a Sense of Identity(Ages 12-18) section "By age 14 most children are insecure about themselves, their bodies, and their acceptability. They tend to be idealistic, impulsive, and intense, wanting everything now. They are often self-centered, moody, and argumentative, having more conflict with their parents, whom they see as old-fashioned. Many don't like to be seen with their parents in public." We have definately seen some of these things going on in our home. I need all the help I can get, especially from above. I have to keep reminding myself to have realistice expectations, and not to expect perfection. Chase is a great kid, and we wouldn't have it any other way. Chase has a good heart, and is kind. He has a sense of humor that we are seeing more of. He likes to be silly, hang out with his friends, and talk in crazy voices.
For Chase's birthday he wanted to go shooting with his dad, which he was able to do. He had a great time and is looking forward to going again. We love you Chase!




Chase opted for 1 candle instead of 13